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Something
to think about
A young and successful executive was traveling down
a neighborhood
street going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He
was watching for kids
darting out from between parked cars and slowed down
when he thought he saw
something.
As his car passed, no children appeared. Instead, a
brick smashed into
the Jag's side door! He slammed on the brakes and
spun the Jag back to the
spot where the brick had been thrown. He jumped out
of the car, grabbed some
kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting
"What was that all
about and who are you? Just what the heck are you
doing?" Building up a head of
steam he went on. "That's a new car and that
brick you threw is going to cost
a lot of money. Why did you do it!?"
"Please mister, please. I'm sorry, I didn't
know what else to do,
pleaded the youngster. "I threw the brick
because no one else would stop..."
Tears were dripping down the boy's chin as he
pointed around the parked car.
"It's my brother," he said. "He
rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair
and I can't lift him up." Sobbing the boy asked
the executive, "Would
you please help me get him back into his wheelchair?
He's hurt and he's too
heavy for me."
Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the
rapidly swelling lump in
his throat. He lifted the young man back into the
wheelchair and took
out his handkerchief and wiped the scrapes and cuts,
checking to see that
everything was going to be okay. "Thank you and
May God bless you" the
grateful child said to him. The man watched the little
boy to remind him not to go
through life so fast that someone has to throw a
brick at you to get
your attention. God whispers in your soul and speaks
to your heart.
Sometimes when you don't have time to listen, He has
to throw a brick at you. It
is your choice: Listen to the whisper-----or wait
for the brick.
-emailed from Lou
The Tale of Three Trees
Once there were three trees on a hill in the woods. They were discussing
their hopes and dreams.
The first tree said, "Someday I wish to be made into a treasure chest. I
could be filled with gold, silver and precious gems. I could be decorated
with intricate carvings and everyone would see the beauty."
The second tree said, "Someday I wish to be made into a mighty ship. I will
take kings and queens across the waters and sail to the corners of the
world. Everyone will feel safe in me because of the strength of my hull."
Finally the third tree said, "I wish to grow to be the tallest and
straightest tree in the forest. People will see me on top of the hill and
look up through my branches and think of the heavens and of God and how
close I am reaching toward them. I wish to be the greatest tree of all time
so that people will always remember me."
After a few years of praying that their dreams would come true, a group of
woodsmen came upon the trees. When one came to the first tree he said, "This
looks like a strong tree, I think I should be able to sell the wood to a
carpenter," and he began cutting it down. The tree was happy, because he
knew that the carpenter would make him into a treasure chest. At the second
tree a woodsman said, "This looks like a strong tree, I should be able to
sell it to the shipyard." The second tree was happy because he knew he was
on his way to becoming a mighty ship. When the woodsmen came upon the third
tree, the tree was frightened because he knew that if they cut him down his
dreams would not come true. One of the woodsman said, "I don't need anything
special from my tree so I'll take this one," and he cut it down.
When the first tree arrived at the carpenters, he was made into a feed box
for animals. He was then placed in a barn and filled with hay. This was not
at all what he had prayed for.
The second tree was cut and made into a small fishing boat. His dreams of
being a mighty ship and carrying kings had ended.
The third tree was cut into large pieces and left alone in the dark.
The years went by, and the trees forgot about their dreams. Then one day, a
man and women came to the barn. She gave birth and they wrapped the newborn
baby and placed Him in the hay in the feed box that was made from the first
tree.
The man wished that he could have made a crib for the baby, but this manger
would have to do. The tree could feel the importance of this event and knew
that it had held the greatest treasure of all time.
Years later, a group of men got in the fishing boat made from the second
tree. One of them was tired and went to sleep. While they were out on the
water, a great storm arose and the tree didn't think it was strong enough to
keep the men safe. The men woke the sleeping man, and He stood and said
"Peace," and the storm stopped. At that time, the tree knew that it carried
the King of kings.
Finally, someone came and got the third tree. It was carried through the
streets as the people mocked the man who was carrying it. When they came to
a stop, the man was nailed to the tree and raised in the air to die at the
top of a hill.
When Sunday came, the tree came to realize that it was strong enough to
stand at the top of the hill and be as close to God as was possible, because
Jesus Christ had been crucified on it.
The moral of this story is that when things don't seem to be going your way,
always know that God has a plan for your life. If you place your trust in
Him, He will give you great gifts.
Each of the trees got what they wanted, just not in the way they had ever
imagined.
-emailed from Tee
The
Fork
There
was a woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal
illness and had been given three months to live. So as
she was getting her things "in order," she
contacted her pastor and had him come to her house to
discuss certain aspects of her final wishes. She told him which songs she wanted sung at the
service, what scriptures she would like read, and what
outfit she wanted to be buried in. The woman also
requested to be buried with her favorite Bible.
Everything was in order and the pastor was preparing to
leave when the woman suddenly remembered something very
important to her. "There's one more thing,"
she said excitedly.
"What's that?" came the pastor's reply.
"This is very important," the woman
continued. "I want to be buried with a fork in my
right hand." The
pastor stood looking at the woman, not knowing quite
what to say.
"That
surprises you, doesn't it?" the woman asked.
"Well,
to be honest, I'm puzzled by the request," said the
pastor.
The
woman explained. "In all my years of attending
church socials and potluck dinners, I always remember
that when the dishes of the main course were being
cleared, someone would inevitably lean over and say,
"Keep your fork". It was my favorite part
because
I
knew that something better was coming...like velvety
chocolate cake or deep dish apple pie. Something
wonderful, and with substance! So, I just want people to
see me there in that casket with a fork in my hand and I
want them to wonder
"What's with the fork?". Then I want
you to tell them: "Keep your fork....the best is
yet to come."
The pastor's eyes welled
up with tears of joy as he hugged the woman good-bye. He
knew this would be one of the last times he would see
her before her death. But he also knew that the woman
had a better grasp of heaven than he did.
She KNEW that something better was coming. At the
funeral people were walking by the woman's casket and
they saw the pretty dress she was wearing, her favorite
Bible, and the fork placed in her right hand. Over and
over the pastor heard the question "What's with the
fork?" and over and over he smiled.
During his message, the pastor told the people of
the conversation he had with the woman shortly before
she died. He also told them about the fork and
about what it symbolized to her.
The pastor told the people how he could not stop
thinking about the fork and told them that they probably
would not be able to stop thinking about it either. He
was right. So the next time you reach down for your
fork, let it remind you ever so gently, that the best is
yet to come. Friends are a very rare jewel indeed. They
make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend
an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always
want to open their hearts to us.
Dance Like No One is Watching!
We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are. After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.
We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire.
The truth is, there's no better time to be happy then right now. If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway! One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D. Souza. He said
"For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."
This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have. And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time... and remember that time waits for no one...
So stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you are off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink, until you've sobered up, until you die, until you are born again...decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy... Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
BUTTERFLY KISSES
We often learn the most from our children. Some time ago, a friend of mine punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight, and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy."
He was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found that the box was empty. He yelled at her, "Don't you know that when you give someone a present, there's supposed to be something inside of it?"
The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said, "Oh, Daddy it's not empty. I blew kisses into the box. All for you, Daddy." The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged her forgiveness. My friend told me that he kept that gold box by his bed for years. Whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there. In a very real sense, each of us as parents has been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children. There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.
POINT OF VIEW
It all depends on the way you look at things. One day a father and his rich family took his son to a trip to the country with the firm purpose to show him how poor people can be. They spent a day and a night in the farm of a very poor family. When they got back from their trip the father asked his son, "How was the trip?" "Very good Dad!" "Did you see how poor people can be?" the father asked. "Yeah!" "And what did you learn?" The son answered, "I saw that we have a dog at home, and they have four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of the garden,they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lamps in the garden,they have the stars. Our patio reaches to the front yard, they have awhole horizon." When the little boy was finishing, his father was speechless. His son added, "Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are!" Isn't it true that it all depends on the way you look at things? If you have love, friends, family, health, good humor and a positive attitude towards life-you've got everything! You can't buy any of these things, but still you can have all the material possessions you can imagine, provisions for the future,etc., but if you are poor of spirit, you have nothing! - author unknown
The Fence
There was a little boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, to hammer a nail in the back fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Then it gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their hearts to us. Show your friends how much you care.
"Let it go
for 2004"
There are people
who can walk away from you. And hear me when I
tell you
this! When people
can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't
want
you to try to
talk another person into staying with you,
loving you,
calling you,
caring about you, coming to see you, staying
attached to
you. I mean hang
up the phone.
When people can
walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny
is never
tied to anybody
that left.
People leave you because they are not joined to
you.
And if they are
not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let
them
go. And it
doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just
means that
their part in the
story is over. And you've got to know when
people's
part in your
story is over so that you don't keep trying to
raise the
dead. You've got
to know when it's dead.
You've got to
know when it's over. Let me tell you something.
I've got
the gift of
good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I
believe in
good-bye. It's
not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful,
and I know
whatever God
means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if
it takes
too much sweat, I
don't need it.
Stop begging
people to stay. Let them go!! If you are holding
on to
something that
doesn't belong to you and was never intended for
your
life, then you
need to ...LET IT GO!!!
If you are
holding on to past hurts and pains ...LET IT
GO!!!
If someone can't
treat you right, love you back, and see your
worth...LET IT
GO!!!
If someone has
angered you ... LET IT GO!!! If you are holding
on to
some thoughts of
evil and revenge .. LET IT GO!!!
If you are
involved in a wrong relationship or addiction ..
LET IT GO!!!
If you are
holding on to a job that no longer meets your
needs or
talents ... LET
IT GO!!!
If you have a bad
attitude...LET IT GO!!!
If you keep
judging others to make yourself feel better...
LET IT GO!!!
If you are
struggling with the healing of a broken
relationship....LET
IT GO!!!
If you keep
trying to help someone who won't even try to
help
themselves...LET
IT GO!!!
If you're feeling
depressed and stressed .... LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get
Left ... think about it,
and then LET IT
GO!!!
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